rule out neither malice nor stupidity.
An angry 26 year old spinster?(anything over 25 and unmarried is unwanted scraps according to Japanese legend ;) )
Yeah, but when a J-girl turns 35, she'll do anything to keep you...I guess it wasn't clear we were all western dudes; teachers at an international school: half single, half married with..., and most having dipped in local waters from little to lots, to 'ball-and-chain'.
I missed that part....I do that sometimes ;)Totally different scene.....that I'm familiar with...completely :)